Originally Posted by
Confused8
On her grad day I told her congratulations and hoped her day went well. She said thank you and that she couldn’t have done it without me. This really has me confused because (I think) it’s true and it’s a thoughtful thing to say that I wouldn’t expect from an ex. Or maybe she’s just being polite? What’s your reading into it?
It's exactly what it sounds like: an acknowledgement that you were an amazing help.
Being an ex partner doesn't mean that we forget the good times, nor does it mean that we can't appreciate what that person has done for us. We can do all of that while still knowing that we can't return because of all the negatives
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.