Hey guys/gals. Went through a odd break up on my birthday last year. It was pretty much see ya have fin going back to nc. I still have tremendous emoitions and love for this girl. I cant seem to move on. But.she has. Every time i try to talk to someone or go on a date. I tend ro talk about the things she did. Or com pair them to her in my head. But she seems happy moved in almostwith her new man. But here i am almost a year later. And still can't get over her.we had issues and our up and downs. We dated for almost 4 years lived together 2 1/2 years.i always said and still think she was my one true love my soul mate.the feelings i got every time i looked in her eyes.was the same feeling i got the first time.is it possible to move on knowing she was you're soul mate. And allot will say she wasn't if were not together anymore.just need some opinions on what i should do.should i try to talk to her or what i don't want her to think I'm trying to ruin her new thing