Originally Posted by
woody
First off, if your hoping for a no strings attached casual encounter, hire a pro.
Secondly, if you were my husband and I thought you'd cheat when I was abroad so I offered the 'okay', have a casual but be honest about it' (as you implied has happened), I'd still be hurt if you went through with it; but that's me, not everyone.
If you have uber high sex drive and simply needs it, well, again, 'Pro'.
Women have this thing called a heart and it tends to involuntarily become involved no matter what guide lines were set out to begin with.
Then there's always the possibility you may draw in an unstable lady who could reap havoc on you and your wife once the wife returns. Ya, you want casual, no muss no fuss and your sure your wife's okay with it (though I can't understand why she would be, again, my opinion, not everyone's) but hire a pro. At least you'll know she won't linger or create tension for your wife.
good grief. Hey, at least you guys are honest about it. Better that than cheating behind the back.