Originally Posted by
Lectus
Hi guys and girls!
So, I'm in a relationship with this 22 years old girl. I'm 27.
I met her at my church where I'm the pastor there.
We've been in this relationship for almost 2 months now.
We meet every night at the Church Service, but because I'm preaching I can't give her much attention. On the days that the other pastor is preaching we sit together there.
But when ever we set up a meeting SHE ALWAYS FLAKES. It's like we set up to meet at 14:00 after lunch, and she arrives at 17:00, always with a different excuse.
I talked with her about this and she said that she said that she really can't meet me at afternoon and that we should try a different time.
So, here's what she proposed: that we should pick a day to SPEND THE WHOLE DAY TOGETHER.
Now, this doesn't make any sense. Why she can't go out in afternoon, but she can meet me in the moorning and pass the entire day together?
Because she's been talking about marriage and pre-engagement rings recently, my mom thinks she's trying to force me into marriage by making me commit to stuff like she taking a shower at my house and other stuff.
Why would a girl flake on your dates but otherwise show interest in commitment?
Any help is appreciated. Thanks