My girlfriend cannot get over her ex that died

[Wakeup]

Hello, thanks for the reply

Yes, I did tell her this. Her idea was to ensure that we have no photos or letters from our exes because it is the past, however because this guy died she believes that this is an exception and she feels she still needs to keep literally everything. Is that right? To tell you the truth, I dont feel comfortable with her current actions.

He killed himself and therefore, in essence he broke up with her through volunteer death. O.o

Look you can get opinions until the cows come home but the bottom line is that she is no where near thinking about your concerns and feelings and thus you either accept her need to mourn in public every year, or you leave her now before you get any further involved. you said it yourself in your Subject line "My girlfriend cannot get over her ex that died"

What is it Your gut is telling you?