@Poetic Partner
Well the peace had to be won did'nt it, hearts and minds? Too much investment and lives lost to move on and stop fighting, ('Mission accomplished") no?The time to fight is over (just like Iraq, eh?).
However the reference I was making to TB and 'moving on' was in regard to stopping the enquiries and questions as to the legality and lies.
And when exactly was the time for fighting over? There was a time,but this was impossible. If the circumstances were different then I would certainly agree that, I had that chance, did'nt take and therefore, well tough.
You reiterate, other posters, 'Moving on' advice but fail to expand upon this - or are you agreeing on Agape's advice to move on based on the fact, that,"..she cheated and you purposely tried to emotionally hurt her. . . it not going to work out"?
'Fighting' for her to realise that it was'nt to either of our benefits for the relationship to end - like it did - at least without full consideration of the issues.If you insist on fighting, what are you fighting for?
"Fighting" meaning to make an effort to save what I believe was worth saving. There is just not enough evidence to suggest that the relationship was destined to fail.
Where do these quotes come from?""Fight for your love", to me, means "fight for your love's happiness"
?? But I did'nt say the what you quoted above - so this is rather meaninglessThat likely means the fight is internal
likewise - meaningless - please explainIt means wish her well in her new relationship.
In addition, you fail to give reason as to why it should be better to move on and/or answer directly the question what signs should I recognise from her, if at all, that there is no point to try for her