Originally Posted by
michelle23
My definition of strengt is far different to yours china. Im with backup. Co-dependant, weak people stay in miserable dysfunctional relationships that are full of pain, drama, stress, jealousy and trust issues.
You know the problem with this statement is that not everyone will end up in a miserable dysfunctional relationship due to a cheating incident. Nor will they be "full of pain, drama stress, jealousy and trust issues." You seem to think that no one can get over something like that and go on to live a happy successful life together when that just isn't true.
In this instance, I think they have not been together long enough to take the chance. They are still in the honeymoon stage for goodness sakes and they have this major negative to deal with. That doesn't spell good odds that they'd be able to overcome and due to the newness of the relationship, IMO it isn't worth trying to go on in this relationship if this has already happened when they both should be the only thing each other is thinking of.
And it takes a lot of strength and courage to walk away from someone you love who you know is bad for you.
This I agree with.
Last edited by Wakeup; 14-05-14 at 07:15 PM.
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