girl68,
sorry for any confusion...from start of my post, I was not trying to say he should marry me now, in fact I am not quite ready for that, i would like to wait for next summer..BUT i was referring to I would like to know if that is a value he holds..sorry if i didnt explain it right... there are men who no matter how right the woman is for them, they never want to get married, at least not til they are 50!! then there are men who know in their heart, they want to marry when they find the right girl-- THAT right there is what i am wanting to know...
me and him are pretty combatible most of the time, not perfect but nobody is..but if he loves me to pieces and cant wait to talk to me every day, does he see me as belonging to him, as his wife in the future, or does he just see us as hang out bf/gf?
if I could just know one way or the other it would help me...
i know as time goes by, if he only wants me for a gf, I will start to feel hurt...when his friend gets married next year, if we go to that wedding, I will be hurting bad
i will feel like "So I am good enough to be your girlfriend, but not good enough to be your wife?
I am afraid if I bring it up he will think I am trying to get him to marry me now, but i just want to know if its his eventual goal or not