I'm not ugly I swear!

[joy&freedom]

Hi!

Your problem appeals to me. In fact, I have the similar problem with finding love. I have also tired several dating sites, I had several dates, but no use. These were not the right people for me. I don't think that there's a problem with your appearance. It's just a bad luck or maybe your time hasn't come yet. At least that's what I say to myself now. Let's hope for meeting someone special next year. I think that I won't give up looking for love, even though I had a bad luck until present. So I wish you good luck.
But I think that it's good to stop trying to find someone, for some time. You've done a lot of searching, let someone find you now

[sookie6]

You've done a lot of searching, let someone find you now

hey

I think this was a beautiful piece of advice...and rings so true. Thank you.

[xxazurexx]

It's when you are least expecting to find it and are not looking, that it will find you. It's always happened that way with me anyway.

[tooxshort]

True. Don't try too hard because ... these things unconsciously give off vibes to others. For instance, when I was single, I never got hit on or whatever. Then after I got a girlfriend, I was getting approached at bars/clubs ... it was friggin' weird. I think there's some kind of aura that surrounds us (i'm sure its scientific).

[doppelgaenger]

after a very recent experience i have to agree with the 'until you least expect it' posts.