Its not over yet, and i dont want to see it end.

[Tiay]

I see your point, but from that argument, you could also say, why do anything? why look for a job or buy food or bother with anything in life; after all, if it's meant to be it'll just *happen* anyway. But it wont, you have to *make* it happen.

therefore I think it would be more accurate to say; if she really loves you, it might mean that you can resume after a break.

[nyc123]

well, that's what i was getting at...

[Tiay]

i'm nitpickey, sorry!

[Ath]

Fate? It exists... but it's not always on your side.

Hope it all works out for you.

-Ath

[Michael6084]

i don't have any experiences in long-term relationships, but what i can say is....is that don't tear yourself up too much about something you may not be able to control. i'd tell her if i were you that "i'm willing to make anything will work and i know we can do it!" type-of-thing, but in a good way, not a "im telling you this, please dont worry, trust me, youre worrying me" type of way.

her insecurity you dont have control of, but if she can rely on you to be strong and to not worry about her and tell her everything will be fine, i think she'll feel better about it.

i know many girls who wish their guys were stable (emotionally) and if you're worried about her being worried, she'll feel a little more insecure and in my opinion it'll keep this cycle.

but if you pull yourself kind of easy-going and cool, it will cool her off. if you act serious about it, she'll feed off that.