what a stupid ****.

[Mish]

.Bo. No offence. I'm not Tyson and I don't know you, but I'm already finding you annoying.

I think it's something about the overly emotional content of your posts. If this is just a vent thread then I apologize. Though I saw you asking some kind of a question and it's very hard to offer you advise with so many emotions flying all over the place.

[carl1222]

.Bo. No offence. I'm not Tyson and I don't know you, but I'm already finding you annoying.

I think it's something about the overly emotional content of your posts. If this is just a vent thread then I apologize. Though I saw you asking some kind of a question and it's very hard to offer you advise with so many emotions flying all over the place.

I totally disagree.

[Mish]

I totally disagree.

Well, you have a lot more patience than me. Half of her posts in this thread seem like they are written in another language to me. When I try to read it all I get is

Tyson bad bad bad, Tyson bad bad bad, Tyson bad bad bad, Tyson bad bad bad, Tyson bad bad bad, Tyson bad bad bad,
Tyson bad bad bad, Tyson bad bad bad, Tyson bad bad bad, Slammed the door in his face, Tyson bad bad bad, Tyson bad bad bad, I'll manipulate him!




Come on

[Aeradalia]

Go get 'em tigress!!

Blessed are the peacemakers.. eh Carl?

From what I read so far, to the OP, I can say that you can do one of a few things:

A.) Give your bf an ultimatum and hope he chooses wisely
B.) Break up with him --- because he's clearly not what you need or want
C.) Reduce yourself to 'Tyson's' level and be the same manipulative and controlling bitch that he is --- if not more.

I'm sorry, but I despise manipulation... no matter how 'justified' it may seem. It always leads to more trouble than it's worth....

[Illusional]

f*ck the friend, why are you with such a pussy bf that won't stand up to his friends for you??

raverboy

[Cbrider]

Anyone named Tyson is trouble in my book. Sounds like you're packin heat and in a gang.

I would just break up if I we're you, you don't want a significant other who is that easily manipulated and controlled, think of the issues with cheating that could arise?

I trust easily and am naive to some social stuff, but it takes the hand of god to actually push me around in my territory.

[Illusional]

anyone who sounds like tyson in my book is one person who i would watch out for. i don't want a missing piece of my ear to end up somewhere around the room.

raverboy

[vashti]

.Bo. No offence. I'm not Tyson and I don't know you, but I'm already finding you annoying.

I think it's something about the overly emotional content of your posts. If this is just a vent thread then I apologize. Though I saw you asking some kind of a question and it's very hard to offer you advise with so many emotions flying all over the place.

I couldn't quite put my finger on what was bothering me about these posts, but you nailed it.

[Bo]

i'm thinkin about cutting it off actually...i can't believe he would let someone do this to our relationship. i really do love him though i just don't know how much more i can take

[Bo]

thank u. i appreciate the advice carl

[Bo]

i care about him a lot, that's why but i'm not sure i want to be with someone who never defends me...and when i say never i mean never...

[Bo]

ya well our story is very long...it includes cheating on his part...and for the ppl who keep saying i'm overly emotional, apparently we're on very different levels as to what that means...but like i mentioned i'm not the only one who feels this way about tyson..
-my bf's other friends don't like him
-tyson's other friend's don't like him
-my bf's parents hate him

for the same reasons i don't like him...

[Aeradalia]

ya well our story is very long...it includes cheating on his part...and for the ppl who keep saying i'm overly emotional, apparently we're on very different levels as to what that means...but like i mentioned i'm not the only one who feels this way about tyson..
-my bf's other friends don't like him
-tyson's other friend's don't like him
-my bf's parents hate him

for the same reasons i don't like him...

Then you have more than enough reasons to leave your bf and Tyson behind and move on. In the end... you may find that you're really better off. Drama and happiness simply do not mix....

[Bokonon]

Manipulation will only increase your problems, not reduce them. You know what's up: your boyfriend has an a$$hole friend that wants him or at least his attention and is jealous of you and is trying to break the two of you up. Your boyfriend is not willing to tell his friend to stfu let alone end their friendship. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about this and let him know you're not cool with it and see if you two can't talk openly and calmly and figure something out. If you can't or he isn't willing to discuss it, if I were you I'd dump him. It shows a lack of respect and concern for you.

If you need to end it, just end it. Manipulation will make it more messy and painful for both of you.

[Bo]

ya well the manipulation thing was somewhat of a joke because i was pissed off...but i've been thinking about it more and more i tried talking to him about it and he says he's sorry...i know he's not gonna do anything about tyson though. so this is probably the last straw. i'm really done trying, it doesn't feel good giving up though. i'm not even sure if i can fully give up on him, i've tried before, it's just really damn hard for me to give up on ppl i love.