Originally Posted by
Robert Angier
No, you are not making me feel any worse that I possibly could, like I have said I take FULL responsibility in what has transpired, and with this response I do not wish anyone to take offense to this but, I do have trouble seeing the world in just black and white, either your are in love with each other or your are not. In my personal experience, the heart does not work that way only the mind clouds that perception, and becomes a coping mechanism for people. Everyone has their own way of dealing with things and they are all right and all wrong. It is all based on your perception and opinion, and of course is all subjective to the perceptions outside the standard first, second, third, etc.
Let's look at it this way... What exactly did you want out of that situation?... You knew you were falling in love... You knew that you had to either tell her or live with it suffering and wondering what she feels towards you you.... Right? It's already Black or White situation as it is... Stop blaiming yourself because you did everything you could from your side... you opened up to her and she denied you... now if you gonna beg her, cry to her or show her you're week... guess what? She's not going to respect you and burn you even more. Girls don't think like we do... they emotional creatures therefore illogical... Because where emotions involved, logic is always going to be in second/third place... Now, you stayed in this "friendship" hoping it's going to somehow transform into relationship... Right? Well you got your answer... So don't show her that you hurt... Ignore her and cut all contacts for a while... and all that thing that girls say "Oh, let's just be friends"... It's all bullshit... Because if you hear that from girls mouth that's all you going to be for her and belive me you will never move up... Am I right sine24??
...The key is, being bold and gallant. She is looking for the knight on the big white Charger that she reads
about in her stupid romance novels. Remember, after she decides to keep you, she will be throwing
those books in the fireplace, where they belong, while trying to keep you warm!...
Doc. Love