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Originally Posted by
Wakeup
Well, take them out and get to know them then if they're nice you can start to like them but only if they like you too. You can discover if they like you too by asking them out again and if they keep saying "yes" to your invites then you can start to be infatuated with them.
It a waste of your time to "love" someone before you have even gone on a date with them. Look how you wasted your time on this girl who ended up not even wanting to go out with you. Don't make that same mistake again.
Just meet girls (join a dating site or a meet up site like meetmarketadventures.com) and just have fun with girls until you meet one that actually wants to go out with you. No sense "loving" someone who you haven't even found out if they like you enough to go on a date with you.
That's all I have to tell you. Bottom line: Don't love someone who isn't showing you in actions that they love you too. If you find them attractive then ask them out and then get to love them. Not love them and then ask them out.
Good luck.