It's hard to forgive someone when there is a breach in trust. I am constantly questioning every day now that when I go to work, is she getting a text shortly after I leave? Is she acting on it? Is she lying about not cheating on me? If I did resolve this problem with a positive outcome, will she tempt herself again in the future? If I do forgive her and she does end up sleeping around on me, how much time have I wasted in my life with her? These questions are insecurities of mine that I would rather not dwell on. I guess the next question is, can you have a good relationship with a person, even after they have cheated on you?