am i wrong to compare?

[haz4ever]

No, I don't think it's so wrong. Your ex is the standard by which all subsequent girls shall be judged. You know what you're capable of feeling, and if you don't feel it for the new one that should be an indication that you shouldn't overcommit yourself to her, lest you disappoint her completely.

I think it would be impossible not to compare your feelings for your ex to your current girlfriend.

True true. Thanks alot for this advise.

[GemStar]

hi guys, i have a question to ask. am i wrong to compare with my last relationship? my last relationship no matter how bad it end, i will never forget the feeling of how much do i love that girl. after we breakup, i tried to date a one or two girls, but none of them seem to be able to give me the feeling that i hv for my ex. am i wrong to compare the current with the past? as i fear, in the past, i love because i love her and now i might be in love because i love to love.

I have no idea why there are people here trying to make you feel bad for comparing. If you cage your mind in and don't think about what you need to think about, you could end up making a terrible decision that could haunt you for years!

You HAVE to think it through and compare. It's not fair to you OR the person you date if you are not honest with yourself!