????? I feel like I'm in crazy town.
His chic DID getting another guy's numbers. A guy that told her he wanted to sleep with her, no less.
She lied about it.
She's done it before.
You girls are just throwing up smokescreens. So what if he asked her if she'd gotten anyone's number. She HAD! She lied to him because she'd DONE THE WRONG THING. GETTING SOMEONE'S NUMBER WHILE YOU'RE OUT ON THE TOWN IS THE WRONG THING TO DO. SHE IS IN THE WRONG. NOT HIM. YOU GIRLS NEED TO ACCEPT THAT AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIVES AND STOP EMBARESSING YOURSELVES.
Blueseummer what's this got to do with your ex-boyfriend? You weren't collecting numbers (I presume). This guy isn't not allowing his girlfriend to go out. Nor does he strike me as unreasonably jealous, given that his girlfriend has been acting up. Don't project your past relationships onto this poor fellow.
It's lucky I'm here - I tell you what.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
Clearly missed the point, though I'm not suprised. I NEVER SAID SHE DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG, BUT HIM GRILLING HER EVERY FRIGGING TIME SHE GOES OUT IS IMMATURE, AND REEKS OF INSECURITY. Regardless of what she did in the past, he chose to stay with her, now he needs to get off her damn case, or just get out of the relationship.....not continue to whine about it and playing social police. He's not doing either of them any good.
And YES, guys gave me numbers sometimes, and I'd take them to be polite and not tell my bf because he'd freaking lose it (I'm starting to think now there are more psychos out there than just him.....). So my story had some relevance. But after everything you posted, I'm not really expecting you to be able to put two and two together anyways.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi