There's a guy at my workplace who talks about women who do what you are doing. Coming off as desperate is just adding more jokes for him to go tell his boys.
Probably saying "Damn. Gave her the dick once and she's already clingy."
It may not be your intentions, but it's something he can build his ego off of to tell his guy friends. Even as just **** friends I assume a guy would still like it to be some form of a challenge.
..::.*Love is giving someone the ability to break your heart but trusting them not to*.::..