You say you've had your heart crushed several times, spcllah, and I guess that must be true if you are so invested after only one week. Doesn't this level of devotion strike you as a bit inappropriate? (Both on your part and on his.)
You say you've had your heart crushed several times, spcllah, and I guess that must be true if you are so invested after only one week. Doesn't this level of devotion strike you as a bit inappropriate? (Both on your part and on his.)
It's going to happen sooner or later anyways.
Isn't breaking someone's heart for the first time considered a badge of honor like taking virginity? rofl
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
LoL guys sit around talkin about the times they took a girls virginity.. girls sit around talkin about the times they were the first to break a guys heart.
Yep, that's always good times.
Ouch, now those are some harsh words. No... I do not think I am God's greatest gift to men. Quite the opposite actually. And as I said before, I care...as a friend, I don't know why he is so attached after one week but I don't make it a habit of breaking peoples hearts. The guy likes me, quite a lot, and frankly it freaks me out. Not sure why I am so special. And as for the way he feels about me as opposed to other girls in the past, and why he says he's never had his heart broken... I wonder about that myself.
I would consider it a big, fat warning sign if a guy shows that level of interest after one week. I vote you run for your life.
I agree with vashti.![]()
I think it was thoughtful of you to tell him how you did. And good luck with your job!
If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!
Keep him as a friend. I mean its always good to have a friend....even if you only keep in touch with them thru email etc.
It was very decent of you to be upfront and honest with him. But still keep in touch. I mean if you can see him as a friend...then why not?
Down the road you never know.....but my philosophy is that you can never have enough friends...even if they are miles away....![]()
Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....
now this is very true ... its good to have friends ... just dont keep them TOO close or they might ruin your life .Originally Posted by Ellynn