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    Man, I just can't stop thinking about this girl. Every time we hang out, I'm more and more attracted to her. She's always so flirty and even "touchy" at times, it's so frustrating. >:O

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    Get your MAC on then

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tone
    Get your MAC on then



    maaaan so one minute this girl's all touchy feely and rubbing my arm and the next minute she's showing me pictures of her and her boyfriend. How shitty.

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    Just cos she has a bf doesn't mean that she's not interested in you.

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    That is pretty shitty... but who knows, maybe she's lookin for a change.

    I'd be very cautious if I were you though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doll69
    Just cos she has a bf doesn't mean that she's not interested in you.

    Quote Originally Posted by Tone
    That is pretty shitty... but who knows, maybe she's lookin for a change.

    I'd be very cautious if I were you though.



    Yeah that's kinda what I've been thinking. That MAYYYYYBE she's looking for something else and is legitimately attracted to me, but at the same time, it could just be that she's an overly affectionate person, and has no actual romantic interest in me whatsoever.


    My interest was also piqued a few days ago . . .

    At one point we were talking and she said something to the effect of "yeah I didn't get too much school work done last night, [insert guy's name] was over at my place", and naturally I asked "who's [insert guy's name]?", assuming (but not sure) that he was her boyfriend. She replied with "my boyfriend or whatever."

    I was like "or whatever?" and she kinda just replied "yeah" with a half laugh. So now I'm even more confused.

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    I'd stay away from this one, if I were you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by clynn
    I'd stay away from this one, if I were you.
    Moi Aussi.


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    some girls are like that , what i found out was that the second their boyfriend screws up , your the one she's going to go straight after . It get's extremely annoying if it keeps up ...most usually girls like that are very interested in you but won't give up the current BF just yet ... I say stay away also ... only trouble comes from these broads .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Late_vamp
    some girls are like that , what i found out was that the second their boyfriend screws up , your the one she's going to go straight after . It get's extremely annoying if it keeps up ...most usually girls like that are very interested in you but won't give up the current BF just yet ... I say stay away also ... only trouble comes from these broads .


    Yeah so I'm an idiot. I told myself I'd back off and just play it cool and whatever, and not go out of my way to get used and walked all over. Then today she IMs me (got my IM from facebook, I guess, because we never actually exchanged IM names directly), and wanted to know how I was, blah blah blah, then cut straight to "do you think you could help me with some homework tomorrow?"

    And like a jackass of course I told her I would, and figured out a time I could fit it into my schedule. It usually ends up being me doing it for her more or less.

    Man I suck. I have no willpower apparently.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RogerWilco
    Shit. She's got a boyfriend. Story of my life.
    I know how that feels.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RogerWilco
    Yeah so I'm an idiot. I told myself I'd back off and just play it cool and whatever, and not go out of my way to get used and walked all over. Then today she IMs me (got my IM from facebook, I guess, because we never actually exchanged IM names directly), and wanted to know how I was, blah blah blah, then cut straight to "do you think you could help me with some homework tomorrow?"

    And like a jackass of course I told her I would, and figured out a time I could fit it into my schedule. It usually ends up being me doing it for her more or less.

    Man I suck. I have no willpower apparently.
    Damn man... you need to follow the same advice here ---> [url]http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=12008[/url]

    LoL

    Don't let her play you...

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    Well, I found out that about a week ago her and her boyfriend are no longer together . . .

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    OHSNAP

    You know what that means... *bow chik-a-wao wao*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tone
    OHSNAP

    You know what that means... *bow chik-a-wao wao*


    Haha we'll see. I don't know how soon after the breakup I should try anything.

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