Short and sweet...

[ACR]

I dono...im new at this.

I figured we could go out and do something...she suggested shopping.

[Gigabitch]

RED FLAG

Um, how much money are you willing to spend?

[ACR]

I dono...I figured like 50 bucks or something...

How much do you usually spend when you "go shopping"?

[Gigabitch]

Well, I haven't gone out with the specific intent to spend some guy's money since high school, so let's assume she's 16. Fifty bucks should suffice, but I do want to say that I still think you're setting yourself up to be her bitch.

Is she worth it?

[ACR]

Is she worth it?

Absolutely.

17, by the way. So am I.

Honestly, I dont think she would make me pay for anything that she wants. Not quite yet anyway.
I think it would be more of a "company" thing, rather than, "buy me this, now buy me that." thing.

I know her better than that.

[Gigabitch]

Sounds like she wants to be seen with you, anyway. Awwww, kids are cute!

So in answer to your original question, about if it was a mistake to pour your heart out...

Apparently not.

[ACR]

We'll see then, wont we?

Thanks everyone.

[Junket]

How about next time you suggest you go somewhere more private, to a park for a walk or somethin', where buying her things isn't an option. See if she's up for that.

[vashti]

Good god, I just told my son to avoid "shopping" dates all together. It is too easy for a boy to be taken advantage of.

ACR - don't do it.

Also, I don't like her response that she "might" date you someday.

"It seems to me that maybe pretty much always means no.."

[King Zarathu]

and how I would do everything in my power to make her feel happy and safe.

YOU ARE HER BITCH!l

[Junket]

Thanks guys, Giga was startin' to lead this poor boy astray with what he wanted to hear.

Giga, you should be ashamed of yourself.

[King Zarathu]

Dude I'm not even kidding.. you're going to be her bitch that she can use to take money from and boost her self-esteem. I suggest you IM her, tell her she's full of shit, and never talk to her again. If you can get away with ****ing her, do it. Then never talk to her again.

Jesus dude....

[dreamer101]

dude she is going to break your heart. she sounds like a stuck up kinda girl. never give a girl the pleasure of knowing that she shot you down. just tell her, you are not interested in winning her over and that she didn't shoot you down. because you feel much better on telling her how you felt, its just sad for her that she didn't feel the same way. its her loss. thats what i would say.

unless ofcrouse you want to be her pimp.

[ACR]

I think you guys are making too big a deal over the shopping thing.

I know I came here asking for help, but that just doesnt sound like her.

Ill let you know how it goes.

[Junket]

He's a stubborn one, I can admire that, to an extent.