Wow... all of you, except Gigabitch, are some of the most unsensible people that I've ever seen on the Internet! I thought that this was supposed to be a love forum... a
LOVE forum, for Chrissakes!
We have this girl Chelsee comming here looking for counseling, for support, for a helping hand while asking for some advise concerning to what to do to control her temper, and what do the most of you people do? make fun of her, that is so sad, so
VERY sad, really...
Chelsee, if it's not the first time that you do something like this with your Ex, then maybe he expects you to do this kind of thing over, and over, and over again, a very dear girlfriend of mine has a similar problem, not as drastic, but then when she settles down, she apologizes to me later on, and admits that she overdid it. You see... once you admit that you do have a problem, that is the first step towards self improvement, what you can do when you start feeling upset is probably count to 10, slowly, that will cut off your anger outburst to some extent, but not completly, so the rest is entirely up to you to control your anger.
Also, I believe that your Ex just went away afraid that things would have gone much, MUCH worse if he stayed, and if he did, what could've happen then? would've he just take your insults right in his face and accept them? I'm not saying that your Ex is like this, but... some men will hit women without remorse, so you
definetly need to get your emotions on check, you could've just shrug and say "well, whatever" and resume your way, you wouldn't be feeling like you do now if you did that...
Well, those are my two cents for you, you can keep the change, though
