Can love be planned? Can you make someone love you?

[Gribble]

I think you can make yourself love someone.

Men learn to love those they are attracted to.
Women learn to be attracted to those they love.

Gribs
24
US of ****ing A, Bitches

[Junket]

IUS of ****ing A, Bitches

You're a bitches.

[Chimeros0]

Sounds like your trying to make the next "Hitch" movie.

Watch the movie "Hitch",it'll give you some insight & character development schematics.Perhaps give you some ideas for camera pans an angles,etc.

Otherwise you need to define the meaning of "Love" in your script.

Does this guy just want to get laid, or actually experience what it is like to do anything for that one particular person ( ergo: Fall in Love )?

From what I've experienced nothing really goes according to plan after a while.
You eventually become "love drugged" and don't care about plans...
You just want to be with that person no matter what...
Until/If your heart gets broken & you have to move on...

Do the research & watch some "Love" movies.That way you can also get a heads up at what your audience wants.
The classics are the best to learn from though...

An Evil Mad Scientist;
Age:unknown due to chryo-genesis & cloning;
Cape Town;
South Africa.

[CAM]

Well, I hope you plan to use the Diana Ross version of I'm Gonna Make You Love Me in the soundtrack, first of all.

I believe that you can make love happen, but love will resent it. Love is a sneaky little cuss who will then go behind your back and get revenge. Opportunities for love can be engineered, especially if there's a certain amount of naturally occuring chemistry present, but Love will have the last laugh.

Giga
38
USA

Agreed...but I would change thesong to Billy Joel's "A Matter of Trust"

[Tigger_]

i always believed that if u love someone, then theyd love you back.... im so very wrong!!! You can't really make someone love you, thats totally upto their heart and mind!!!

A.K
24, Pakistan

[williu]

Just a little bump-e-dy-bump in case someone missed this thread

[Marcel]

You certainly can make someone fall in love with you...in time. The best and long lasting relationships are made that way. You slowly learn to enjoy each others company...build a certain respect without any pressures...and slowly fall in love.
It is better than love at first sight....and when the passion is over in 2 yrs. its usually over.

Marcel

[ewomack]

The question here, I think, is would you want to make someone love you? Doesn't that sound kind of empty? Wouldn't you rather that someone just loved you for who you were rather than having to manipulate or "trick" them into it. I think it's possible, but not desirable.

[anachronistic]

love just happens... and you can't describe it.

Nathan of South Dakota, age 18.