How to have fun with a visual man

[shh!]

And why do people automatically assume this girl is trying to compete and is therefore insecure?

Because if she doesn't wear revealing clothing, her boyfriend will be looking at other women?

Anyway, my husband is like misombra's B/F - when I am there, he only has eyes for me, even after all these years.

[misombra]

awwwwwwww that's cuz you're so special.

[shh!]

Haha - not really. Some men just aren't the type, I guess.

[misombra]

yeah. i don't think all guys are "visual men."

some guys have class.

[Cain]

yes but many men can control their eyes when their girlfriend is around.

i'm pretty lucky that in this past 5 years i've been with my bf, he has never told me about how hot another woman is. even if it's a lie, when i'm around i'm the most beautiful woman in the world.

And that's how it should always be.

I would never tell my gf how hot another girl is.

[misombra]

you're a good boy, cain.

[Cain]

you're a good boy, cain.

Personally, I don't even like saying "hot." If I want to compliment my girl, I'd call her beautiful or gorgeous, but every now and then I'll tell her she's sexy just so she knows I still have a strong desire for her. I think calling a girl sexy or hot all of the time though is a bit high schoolish.

[anachronistic]

When I go out with women, I am too busy enjoying my date to notice other women.

[lesa]

Dasein: I have worn the usual sexy outfits. I am looking for something unusual and daring. At the same time I don’t want to look cheap and trashy.
What are classy outfits that drive men crazy?

A long dress or skirt with a split on the side.

I never look at other men when I am with boyfriend. I have no desire. BF appears to not have the desire also.

[boobaa]

When I go out with women, I am too busy enjoying my date to notice other women.

Sorry, but I don't believe you.


There is no higher class. Boyfriends are not buzy, they just pretend. Often force themselves to look at one girl only, because they know they have a good chance for getting laid.

Its mans nature to plant the superior seed to as many women as possible, so the perfect race could rule the world. Thats why men have a sexual urge for relief, and women don't.

[misombra]

geez booboo. the amount of information in your head amazes me.

[Cain]

Sorry, but I don't believe you.


There is no higher class. Boyfriends are not buzy, they just pretend. Often force themselves to look at one girl only, because they know they have a good chance for getting laid.

Its mans nature to plant the superior seed to as many women as possible, so the perfect race could rule the world. Thats why men have a sexual urge for relief, and women don't.

Oh.

Well, I can safely say that when I'm with my gf, I'm not looking at any other girl with sexual thoughts in my mind. The only sexual thoughts I had involved her.

Not all guys are like you.

[anachronistic]

Sorry, but I don't believe you.


There is no higher class. Boyfriends are not buzy, they just pretend. Often force themselves to look at one girl only, because they know they have a good chance for getting laid.

Its mans nature to plant the superior seed to as many women as possible, so the perfect race could rule the world. Thats why men have a sexual urge for relief, and women don't.

You give me lulz boobaa. I honestly do not pay much attention to anything else on a date. The girl is in the limelight. If I am not attracted to her in that way, then I know that I don't like her.

Yeah there have been a few women that catch my attention when I am with another girl, though. I keep those things to myself though. You are not supposed to 'shut out' those feelings when you're monogamous. However, I am not constantly looking for attractive females, I am not constantly thinking about sex, like a typical man is defined to do.

[boobaa]

You give me lulz boobaa. I honestly do not pay much attention to anything else on a date. The girl is in the limelight. If I am not attracted to her in that way, then I know that I don't like her.

Yeah there have been a few women that catch my attention when I am with another girl, though. I keep those things to myself though. You are not supposed to 'shut out' those feelings when you're monogamous. However, I am not constantly looking for attractive females, I am not constantly thinking about sex, like a typical man is defined to do.

You proved my point.

And I didn't say the stuff is concious.

its always so good to justify yourself, and also say what exactly you are doing and what not, what you conciously think.

[anachronistic]

Sorry, but I don't believe you.


There is no higher class. Boyfriends are not buzy, they just pretend. Often force themselves to look at one girl only, because they know they have a good chance for getting laid.

Its mans nature to plant the superior seed to as many women as possible, so the perfect race could rule the world. Thats why men have a sexual urge for relief, and women don't.

You proved my point.

And I didn't say the stuff is concious.

its always so good to justify yourself, and also say what exactly you are doing and what not, what you conciously think.

Boobaa, what kind of repulsive females have you been dating? I have *never* had to force myself to behave in that manner. I actually go on dates and spend my love-life with people who have something worthwhile to say. When I go on dates, I actually have so much fun that I am distracted from the environment. All my focus goes into the task at hand. I am not actively looking for women to 'plant my superior seed into'. Sure, every now and then I notice a gorgeous female get up and walk around, but if I am taken, but why should she be of any concern to me. If I am with a girl that fulfills all my needs, then I am really not interested in other women, honestly. Sure I notice what is good looking, but I don't have sexual desires about it. Not about getting laid.

So if that wasn't your point, you need to be a little more clear.