Indi this is awesome advice and the crazy thing is I already knew this, not the specifics about the Venn diagram thing but about the overall process. For some reason I hadn't been able to tap in to this and I think that reaching out in this forum and to others was a way for me to do that. Sometimes I think it's important to hear things you already know from someone else even many others. I have a plan and have been making great strides fairly quickly to bring the things in my life that I don't have that will help me to feel Secure, the plan in and of itself has helped a lot, some things may take time but others weren't as far away as I thought and things get better everyday. I feel more like myself than I have in a very long time, my confidence is back now it's time to get to work.

Thank You.