I've never really liked anyone

[Henry123]

Hi everyone.

Name's Mathias, I just registered and have a question. Not one of the usual boring questions like "what should I do?" or "Is something wrong with me?". No, I just like to ask you, how many crushes have you had?

A little more info about me. I'm an 18 year old student for Sweden, I'm good looking and quite social. I like to go out a lot and I have no problem whatsoever to speak in front of a girl. I have a lot of friends both male and female and my life is currently going perfect. I couldn't have it better.
But there is one thing that have start bugging me. I have no love life at all.

The thing that made me think about it was the upcoming prom (yes, we have that in Sweden too) and I realised that I don't have anyone that I would like to go with. There isn't one girl in the whole school that I really like. All the girls I know are just friends.

Now, the thing is. Reason for me asking how many crushes you've had is because I'm able to count mine on my right hand, there have been three yet and the first one, I didn't really like, she was just pretty. And the other two, I've just met once and never again.

Now, I'm not desperately looking for a girlfriend or anything like that, I believe she will appear when the time is right. I'm just wondering, how many crushes you've had when you were 18? Did you just see her/him and love was there from the beginning or was it something that grew inside you until you realised it was there?


and ps: For those of you who wonder, I'm not gay and yes I'm sure.

Could it be that you are suffering from depression? You might want to check it out with your family doctor if you are???

Maybe you need to meet girls who are not part of your school???

I'm just guessing here. Hoping to help you out.