okay... I have seen the secret, and it does work, but i dont think it works for the reasons that they say in the movie. I think that it works because when you really know what you want... your subconscious mind will change your sub communications, and people will pick up on it. I can get away with saying the dumbest stuff to people, and then when other people so the same thing, in a way that (on the surface) is identical, it won't work. I'm a fairly good looking guy. But i know "ugly" people who have a great skill for attracting women.

Anyway, what generated attraction for men, is completely different to what creates it for women. It's all about evolution guys... survival and replication. But I dont have the time to expand on this right now, but it is genuinely fascinating stuff... message me, or reply if you want me to expand...