Originally Posted by
L0stL0ve
In my opinion, she wanted more experience, meaning she wants to go out and have fun being single, it doesn't necessary mean she wants to sleep with other guys and all that. It means she wants to have fun with no strings attached. She don't want to have to second think what she's doing because what she does might hurt u..
I just turned 21 myself, and me n my bf of 4.5 years broke up, and it's not because I wanted to have fun..but it was him. We were high school sweethearts and..he told me..he didnt know if he can commit and he's no longer happy in the relationship because there are so many problems and fights. But come to realize, its not because we have problems and fights, it's because..going to parties, drinking, meeting new people gave him more of a freedom something where he doesnt have to worry about. Where he doesn't have to go home and realize that he has to think about what he did and if it was appropriate
I had a friend who went out with one of my best girlfriends and he told me "i love her to death and she will be the girl i marry if i was older right now, but i just want to have fun and have more experience right now"
I know it really hurts to know that because it's been almost 2 months of my breakup and..it still hurts, but i've accepted the break up..me and my ex have mutual friends, we attend the same university, i would run into him every so often but i try my best to avoid and ignore him not because i hate him for what he's done but bc i know if i keep talkin to him or attempt to be friends, it'll keep hurting and..it's going to be another reason you can't and won't able to let go.
Let her have her fun, if she comes back she will, but my advice is, dont wait for it, because it might never happen, move on with life without her. I totally understand that you love her and you would give up anything for her, cuz i wouldve gave up anything to be with my ex boyfriend..but sometimes LOVE isn't enough...I personally don't think she's giving you mix signals or trying to test you out, she just don't really want anything to do with you anymore because..truth is, you guys arent together and she's taken the first step to move on.
Someone once told me that it's possible to fall out of love and in love with the same person again. It's fate, if it happens it willl, but dont dwell on it, dont wait on it..you shouldn't torture yourself like that because in the end, its you who really matters. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you.
Best wishes.