Originally Posted by
CocoChanel
People who have a chemical imbalance CAN'T help it Disillusioned. It's been scientifically proven.
Speak loud enough for your limitations and they'll be yours. It's a bold claim to say something is scientifically proven when it's an inexact science. Biology is individual and "can't" isn't what I would consider an appropriate word and seems to imply everybody fits in the same jacket. There are levels and degrees of chemical imbalance therefore some can't fight it on their own but they can make efforts to help others help themselves. Sitiuational depression can be fought, as can clinical depression. The fight can't always be won on your own but being proactive is a choice. Sitting on the couch is a choice. Eating fast food is a choice. If you don't try, of course it can't be done. An existential challenge forces you into a mode of desperation where you are damn-well motivated if you want to go on living and this can cause a paradigm shift.
When you have a cold you can't just make the cold go away with the wave of your hand and forcing a change of the way your feeling.
A wave of the hand is easy. I never said that nor did I imply it was easy. It also, as I just stated above, has to do with degrees of imbalance and level of self-control, the latter of which can be improved, the former can benefit.
There are steps and processes you take.
OMG! That goes without saying. I fail to see where I argued this, in fact I think I outlined some steps.
People who have chemical imbalances are like mother nature. You don't know what it's like unless you are chemically imbalanced.
Should I take this as an assumption that you think I'm a balanced person? I never said anyone can do it, I said it's possible. I've done it, many of my freinds have done it, many without drugs. It's like being an alcoholic, you're always an alcoholic but you fight it, not go along with it. The steering wheel comment is a matter of free will to change your own attitude and it can be done, not that it's always enough. I spent most of my life depressed, now I fight depression. I feel it hovering around the edges trying to creep in and it takes concentration and constant effort not to allow it to run my life but you can bet your ass it's there and it's a miserable state to lapse into and really sticky to get out of. I don't disagree with you necessarily but I feel you oversimplified it. Degrees, conditions, individuality, environment and many other factors all play a part and are different for everybody.
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