my gf is going through a real bad phase, she had her break up recently at an odd time because of which she screwed 1 of her examination paper and she flunked in it. hi, this is India, a retarded conservative society, her parents have been emotionally kinda hurting her all the time with her dad even slapping her 1ce, she knows i love her and she tells me everything that no one is supposed to know, she needs some time to get over all this b4 we both are together, she likes me too though.
jus today i called her and she was actually crying because something happened between her and parents and i couldn't see her crying. how do i help her emotionally??? i feel useless not being able to help her..how should i make her feel stronger????
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14-08-09, 09:58 PM #1
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helping my gf emotionally
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14-08-09, 10:02 PM #2
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Leave her. You're behaving like her toilet paper.
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Sounds like too much drama for me.
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There is nothing you can do. When it comes to personal problems, that you are not contributing to, the only person that can make a difference is her. Nothing you say or do will really help, just be you and make her smile. But don't let her make you a target of frustration or simply the shoulder to cry on.
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thx man i think ur absolutely correct
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15-08-09, 12:50 AM #6
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No problem buddy. Good luck
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thx mate, i tried to be myself and made her laugh, she felt really good, kinda missing me
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15-08-09, 01:32 AM #8
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Just hold her & listen to her. Avoid the desire to 'fix' her problem.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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15-08-09, 01:45 AM #9
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Like toilet paper... You can only wipe the rough bits away. She needs to jump in the shower on her own to really get her O-ring into audited deli countertop standard.
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15-08-09, 08:34 AM #10
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make her strong by encouraging her, make her believe in her self.
Say to her things that could give her hope, boost her self worthy, and lastly, tell her no one could make her what she does not like, unless she agreed her, nothing or nobody could make her cry unless she agree to it, and want to cry herself[URL="http://jidekan.makingup.hop.clickbank.net"]The Best Way To Have Your Love Back[/URL]
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