What to do when shes constantly teasing you.

[speakerspoke]

Sounds like a waste of energy, you know what would be more fun than getting lured into a verbal pissing match with a crazy girl? Just about anything else.

Find some more girls man! lol

[IndiReloaded]

You have to make her look mean. Say something like "Oh, now you are just being mean, trying to make me feel bad. That's not very nice. I only date nice girls. See ya."

I won't make her like you any more, but she's a bitch so who wants that anyway? It might make the nice, quiet lady next to her think twice about you, tho.

Case in point: I saw a guy recently at the local shops. He was being chewed out by someone. He was obviously embarrassed, but he stood up for himself in a nice way. I felt bad for him but he seemed to be doing alright. I met him later in the library, by chance. He smiled at me & I mentioned I saw him earlier and complimented him on keeping his cool. We had a good chuckle over slightly insane people in our frazzled society. Just one of those random connections with people in one's community.

[speakerspoke]

Did you make him pancakes in the morning?

[IndiReloaded]

Moi? LOL, no. I think I said something about needing to pull my son off the computer and head home.

There are actually people who are friendly without ulterior motive. Are you the fellow from Beantown? You need to leave before completely corrupted.

[speakerspoke]

Yes; and do you have a waffle maker?

[Graham Berkeley]

LOL @ conversation. Thanks for derailing this thread guys

[speakerspoke]

A response such as that is only going to provoke more teasing from girls Graham.

Want my advice? You should have asked a guy instead of catty confused girls. Grow a sack, laugh at her as you mock her, and go find something else to do if you feel the need for face saving or whatever.

Otherwise, find more girls that you enjoy rather than focusing on the ones that you don't.

[IndiReloaded]

Yes; and do you have a waffle maker?

I used to, but my lesbian ex-wife took it when we split up. Bitch.

[Aeradalia]

Graham... valuable words of advice here... when someone is trying to start a fire don't add fuel to it.

If a girl (or anyone for that matter) is trying to provoke you with insults and other forms of meanness, do not resort to doing the same thing. Stupid games like this are a sign of immaturity. Make that known by calling if for what it is - a game, and letting it be known that you're not going to be sucked in.

The game can't be fun anymore if no one is willing to play. If she wants to act like a little kid then treat her like one.

Eventually she'll either get the concept or get on down the road.

[CocoChanel]

I used to do that to boys when I was in middle school! How old is this broad?
She's immature if anything.

[SS Gal]

I agree to getting away from those immature little girls. If I was a guy and any girl pulled that stuff with me, I'd give her a look of disgust and say something like "Wow! You are too hateful for me! Gooood Bye." From the stories I've heard from guy friends and what I've seen at the bars, girls nowadays are really bad at being immature, loud and obnoxious. I feel sorry for the single guys out there. Just know that we are all NOT that way, but where you shop sometimes determines the quality of the merchandise.....

[Aeradalia]

Just know that we are all NOT that way, but where you shop sometimes determines the quality of the merchandise.....

And sometimes, you get bothered by solicitors when you're minding your own business.

[Graham Berkeley]

I'm still trying to talk my boy into reading this thread. I've mentioned a few posts in it. He just rolls his eyes.

[IndiReloaded]

This is a good book for boys. Simple language & good points:

[ame="http://www.amazon.ca/How-Talk-Girls-Alec-Greven/dp/0061709999"]How To Talk To Girls: Amazon.ca: Alec Greven: Books[/ame]

[MVPlaya]

I was watching my friend flirt it up with a girl last night. She started teasing him during the flirting and frankly at one point got kinda mean. After we left I was talking to him and he said that that happens a lot to him and doesn't know what to do when the flirting turns into teasing turns into flat out insulting.

To me it looked like she was just trying to damage his confidence. Some women seem to find that flirty. I told him that next time she is like that to tell her "Look your crossing a line with your attitude. I'm not going to want to continue talking to you if you keep acting this way."

Spoke to a female friend about it and she thinks I gave him the wrong advice. She seems to think he should get equally as teasing and mean as this is the girls way of showing you she wants it. Frankly that makes no sense but what do you girls say?

Always tease back. Always have something more clever to say (this is a problem if you're not particularly clever). Don't be an asshole but be funny. Teasing is only a girl testing you and you can either pass it or fail. If you're in a group of multiple people you can also take away her speaking time "alright, thats enough from you, i want to hear what you (other girl) have to say" or "don't move, but I'm just trying to see if you come with an off button anywhere."

After that, there will be plenty opportunities for normal interactions.

However, sometimes a girl is just in complete bitch-mode and wants to insult you. In a situation like that, the best move is simply saying "enjoy your night" and walking away.