Relationship problems

[Gigabitch]

I been with my boyfriend for just over 2 and a half years now. The first year was the best year of my life he SEEMED perfect in every way and we had no arguements whatsoever...

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Anyone Got Tips On How To "Cure" Jealousy?

Yeah, it's cured by trust, and you can't trust a liar. Sorry.

He hasn't lied for about half a year now...

You don't know that.

I say dump him. I ****ing hate lying.

[Boomting]

Fixed your post. Now it's true.



Yeah, it's cured by trust, and you can't trust a liar. Sorry.



You don't know that.

I say dump him. I ****ing hate lying.

So Do I
Ye I Know He Don't Lie Now Cause He Always Said He Didnt Go Out When He Did So I Wouldnt Moan Apparently.. But Now He Tells Me If He Goes Out And Dont Lie About Stuff. No He Was Perfect First Year Was The Best No Lying, Arguements, He Would Take Me Out, Do Anything To Make Me Happy And Now According To him cause I Lost Trust In Him And Get Jealous About The Littlest Things He Said Hes Starting To Not Care If Im Upset Cause It Happens So Much. When I Dont Moan N Get Jeakous For About A week He Starts Getting More Loving And Like He Used To Be Until I Moan About Something Again So I feel Like Its My Fault ;/ And According To Him It Was A White Lie Which Is different? I Personally THink Lying Is Lying.

[moonriver]

I'm positive you mean well, but this is a load of shit. Tell me exactly how you learn to "love yourself". Exactly what is it that you do? For people who have a jealousy/ insecurity problem this isn't easy at all. This is the most vauge, and lame advice *always* given.

No offense meant.

Right, i think that your speech is a load of shit, and plus it's really pessimistic. Of course you can learn to love yourself, the first thing to do is to take care of you. For a woman, it's obviously to take care of her skin with some cream, to do sports, to make up... WHen people don't love themself that's because they don't know and they don't listen to their body. I don't know how to say that well in english. You have to tame (thanks the dictionnary) your body in order to know it and to love it. You can't love something you don't know and that seems "out of you", because when you don't take care of you your body seems as if it weren't yours. Is what i'm saying understandable?

To come back to ur problem, and i'm sorry to ask that but i think that's it's an important point in a love relationship, how is ur sexual life? Is it still good or do you avoid this topic? And it seems obvious that ur man is just an ass hole, sorry for the expression. I agree with everybody : u should get him out of ur life, not because he is mean with u but also because you don't trust him anymore : why would you stay with him? Confidence in each other is, according to me, the most important things in a relationshion. He betrayed you several times, no it's time to let him go.