Should I ignore him? to make hime want me more!

[CocoChanel]

LMAO!!!! Wowwwww. This is hilarious and I can't stop laughing.

[Only-virgins]

Yea, ignore people to make them like you. Clearly flawless logic.

[Goldi]

thanks again.

I don't know, but I think I only want him as a friend because he is not that good looking.

[lilly1185]

You go or you're a total tool of a girl.

A boy asks a girl out she says hmmm "I'm going to play little miss hard-to-get" so I'll say no thanks. Next day, a different girl from his math class was asked out by him, she said yes.

Exactly. School is a huge place and you are no trophy of the course.
You CAN politely refuse but DO THE COUNTER OFFER,
I fail to understand what the big deal is about going to hang out. You are getting to know each other. NOT committing to marriage.

Props, girl, on the use of the word tool

Edit:

I don't know, but I think I only want him as a friend because he is not that good looking.

Boooooo! Do not keep a guy on the backburner. EVER. That is cruel. Tell him straight up if you are not interested romantically.

[Peter Pry]

thanks again.

I don't know, but I think I only want him as a friend because he is not that good looking.

Wow, you just keep getting sleazier, don'tcha? This guy should be thanking his lucky stars for his narrow escape from you.

[Goldi]

your replies are really making me think through again.

First I just want to clarify some -ve points in this guy which makes me not sure if I want to go out with him:

1-he didn't have the courage to ask me out in my face!
2-we don't speak that much in the class
3-he doesn't have a lot of girls as friends on facebook
4-he is not good looking

but his good traits are:
he is very good in his studies, funny, dress good and polite person.

so I am still confused

[Chupacabras]

You just keep digging that hole...

I'm thinking he dodged a bullet; leave the guy alone.

[girl68]

I'd like to point out a few things about yourself:
-don't knock him for not asking your face out, because you didn't only not reject him to face you insulted him by inviting him to see your pigs on your imaginary farm on facebook.
-you're a game player

[davidtorres]

hahaha im sure he asked another girl. he didnt ask you in your face coz you think highly of yourself. look at you, now posting that hes not that good looking. however, you posted here that "you will ignore him to want u more". Now, you're posting that hes not that good looking since he didnt ask you again. lol

[lahnnabell]

So he's not good looking? So, you are NOT physically attracted to him? And that's a bad thing to you. So... what was the point of even doing this little dance with him?

And it's a bad trait that he's not friends with many girls on Facebook... What?! Why is this even relevant? Meaning he's not desirable to other girls, so there's no one for you to make jealous?

Yikes.

[Chupacabras]

I do not miss being a teenager at all.

[Peter Pry]

your replies are really making me think through again.

Wonderful. Thinking is always good. Keep that up. You seem to be a very articulate young person; however, you have not yet started thinking in the correct direction for being able to ever have a mature relationship with another human being. That direction would be the direction of openness, honesty, and empathy. In other words, recognition that this boy who is courting you has actual, real feelings, that you are trampling all over. Right now you are exhibiting nothing but manipulation, game-playing, and selfishness.

[Only-virgins]

I do not miss being a teenager at all.

I'm 27 and I still feel like I am surrounded by them.

[Gimpyrks]

Since when has sending a farmville invite mean you like someone??

I say stop playing the games.

[rose36]

for goodness sake, it is very simple. if you like him and he asked you to go out on a date you are allowed to say 'yes'. you are NOT giving him your body and soul by going on a date. you are simply giving yourself a chance to get to know a him a little better. Don't worry. Just take it one step at a time. Just don't hand him your heart on a silver platter and you will be fine.