Cheating...?

[starbuck]

Maikka, listen to what the other posters are saying. The text messages to other women are a very BAD sign. Your boyfriend either has terrible judgement as to what's appropriate in a relationship or he is going to cheat on you.

To top it all off, you felt bad for him after you confronted him about it? Congratulations, now that he suffers no consequences for his bad behavior, you've given him a license to cheat. He already seems to be playing on your guilt when you argue. All of a sudden now you're the "mean" one? You're treading doormat territory here.

You're actually lucky he let you see those messages. He could have hid them from you and then you'd be clueless about what this guy is like. Luckily you have found out he doesn't give a crap about his relationship, and now you can act accordingly. This guy is a bullet waiting to be dodged.

My advice...dump him. He doesn't sound like he wants to be in a relationship, and you need to get your self-respect back.