Attracting guys

[qwertz]

thats not what this threads about indig,

[Indignant]

thats not what this threads about indig,

wow, than i must be really dumb. what is it about once again?

[qwertz]

i said my issue is ATTRACTING guys, i dont tell them in the first conversation that i have a child.

[qwertz]

so yeh, you must be dumb.

[all alone]

geez.. you would think guys would be able to take a hint.. i mean if she starts up a conversation w you at the bar, odds are she is interested.. surprising that you say its happened several times..

Just keep trying, you will come across a smart one soon, your due.. lol

[ecojeanne]

you're not exactly going to attract the 'right' kind of guy in a bar.

[Coco]

wow, than i must be really dumb. what is it about once again?

You weren't off topic. You were wondering if she mentions her child in the first conversation because if she were... that's probably why they aren't attracted to her. You're not dumb. LOL!

[qwertz]

in my first post i made it clear that they didnt know about my 'baggage' did i not?

Its not just in a bar, thats just one example.

[Wiredbomb0]

It could be the way you approach them; as suggested before, they could feel intimidated (which I think is lame but anyway). If you going to go up and talk to them, you could try and be flirty; laugh alot, playfully punch them (or anything along those lines), smile, follow them around, etc. If they can't pick on those signals, then they suck, so you move on

[ecojeanne]

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[Coco]

No need for the attitude. Not everyone considers children as baggage.

[Charlie Boy II]

yeah I find that really strange. I went through a shocking drought earlier last year. It just happens.

I find if I just start going out often, meeting girls kind of follows naturally. Maybe you just need to get out more?

[qwertz]

eco: not sure thats for me! lol

wired : lol i definately flirt!

coco: attitude wasnt meant!

Charlie: yeh, i mean, i do get out a fair amount at weekends(except this one lol) and at work im always being asked out(though i always say no, as they are clients)
I'd just quite like to get laid lol

[ecojeanne]

it's a lot easier for guys to go out on their own and have a good time, for me i find it's impossible unless my friends are available to go out to a bar. i would never go out on my own. i'm sure most women feel the same

[Charlie Boy II]

um, eco guys don't go out on their own. I'd never go out on my own, I'd just feel like a creep.

Qwerty if I lived over there, I'd come round and fix your sink for sure