Huge dilemma

[Petit Papillon]

As I said Q , listen to the majority. Well You already did.
I know it's not funny but I remind me of this video on yt hehe

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[Mish]

I like to stay out of these things, but I'd probably tell him if it was my best friend.

[Cbrider]

He always said to me(before he was married) and in general coversation with friends, that he would want to know if he was cheated on. I have to go by that, what else can i do.

I can completely agree and see where Misombra is coming from, but he has explicitly told you his desires if such a situation should arise.

Just make sure you have your bases covered and can prove what has happened. If its just your word vs hers, all bets are off.

[Sonrisa]

I would never wanna know if my partner "cheated" on me.

[Gigabitch]

I sure would, and if my friends knew and didn't tell me, they would no longer be my friends.

[qwertz]

Well i phoned him earlier, i could tell they were already in the middle of a full blown row, she had already told him that i phoned her and accused her of cheating, she said either i was mistaken at what i saw or i was lying.

I just told my friend what i saw and what she had said to me when i rang her. I didnt start accusing or anything, i just told him i thought he should know what i do. He got really upset when i told him as i know he knows i wouldnt have said anything unless i was sure.

I just left it at that for them to sort out, im not gonna get involved any more unless he asks me again. Im glad she had already said about me phoning, as then it wasnt a shock when i phoned him.
I just hope he's ok.

[girl68]

Yikes. Well you've informed him the rest is up to him. Wow, that really does lick bad balls.

[Mish]

Well i phoned him earlier, i could tell they were already in the middle of a full blown row, she had already told him that i phoned her and accused her of cheating, she said either i was mistaken at what i saw or i was lying.

So she's also a liar

I phoned her and it didnt take long before she started crying hysterically saying it was a one off. Just doesnt add up as a one off to me.

[ecojeanne]

too late now! you're likely a gonner

[Coco]

You can always get his point of view without telling him its about him first. Have to be clever about it though.

[tooxshort]

Good thing it's out ... Who cares if she gets pissed at you? Your loyalty is to your best friend, not his wife. She needs to own up to whatever she's done. She's the one who cheated, so she should deal with the problems.

I'd rather someone tell me than have people talkin' shit about me behind my back, calling me a sucker for love. Give your friend a chance to deal with it on his own terms.

[Illusional]

hahahaha.. this bitch beat you to the punch ah? and then she tired to get the one up on you by telling her bf that YOU are lying.

you did the right thing, from this point on, you should stay out of it because the cat is already out of the bang. whether he wants to believe you or not, that will be his choice. but if shit doesn't go your way and you end up loosing a couple of friends for the time being, just remember, (that i'm here). anyways, honestly though, if he wants to take her side, then that will be his choice, but he'll end up being the sucker for it.

raverboy

[Lipp]

Now you have to stalk her, wait 'til they do it in the car again, tap the window and tell them "Say cheese!" right before snapping a picture and speed-dialing the guy.

[Perryville]

Qwert, you did the right thing, from start to finish. Your friendship is worth any bad blood between you and his wife. Make sure he knows that you are there for him, and let things take their course.

[vashti]

You played it all wrong. You should have demanded some hush money.