Originally Posted by
chiknfingaz
Haha, I actually haven't cried in weeks. I just feel empty. Stupid as it sounds, I'm still upset that she is lonely and hurting too. But then that leads to frustration, because I know getting back together could fix our sadness.... at least in the short term. :-/
yes I know getting back together is a terrible idea.
We've all been there. I have a solution to your problem. Hangout with friends that are single more often. You need your friends right now. Time for them to step up and be friends. When my ex gf cheated on me, I was severely depressed and my friends helped me through it.
I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.