Women coming on to you?

[devonbrown]

I usually initiate the conversation because I know some women are a little shy when it comes to that. However, I expect them to call me back if I leave a message and if they want to go out it's nice if they ask me as much as I ask them. It's give and take.

[MadMardegan]

ONE incident? Damn. If a guy ever thought of me like that,well then I'd be sorry I approached him in the first place. Having the guts to approach (I hope you know) doesn't mean she's a player nor promiscuous. I don't play guys, and I'm certainly not promiscuious.

After re-reading my comment it does sound kinda stupid.

I didn't mean I've only had one girl come on to me. It was the way it happened, there were a lot of other signs too.

I didn't mean that every girl who comes on to guys is a player and is promiscous. That would be a ridiculous presumption

Just so happened that in this particular situation that's how it played out. I'd be wary of girls like her

[girl68]

^ Fair enough. I'm a good girl and I come onto men if I need to.

[MadMardegan]

^ Fair enough. I'm a good girl and I come onto men if I need to.

You seem like a smart, honest person. One of the best qualities in a girl. I hate when girls tell you what they think you want to hear, rather than what they think.

I thought she was nice at the start too.

She has everyone wrapped around her finger that they don't see the real her. Always acting so sweet, and flirty, but there's always an ulterior motive. I didn't see that until not so long ago.

[doppelgaenger]

Quite a few girls have made advances on me. I've even had girls buy me drinks at bars and all that. I usually give them a chance.

[blent]

I've had women come on to me, i'm usually not interested in them though because most of the time they aren't that attractive. Guys like to chase you so as long as you don't come off as super nice and clingy then go ahead and try it.

[ShybutHi]

I would be flattered if i got asked out by a woman.

[Graham Berkeley]

I like it when a girl approaches me. Shows she has confidence.

[cloudfa]

i consider myself an attractive man with many talents and i rarely ever have women come to me. although at least 3 of my long term relationships were a result of the woman approaching me, this only happened once every few years and led to a relationship.

so i guess the answer to your question is: no, but when they do, its usually a very good thing.