No sex for you (me.)

[Lovable]

Could be she is the shy type?? Maybe even have been hurt in the past & she uses sarcasm a bit when you try to get a little cuddly with her. Like when you put your arm around her during the movie, she said "smooth".

I would take the advice of Take2, when you try again to be a little intimate with her & she does her usual, talk to her about it. See what she has to say, you say you know her alot from talking alot to her, but you both missed talking about an important component to relationships, being intimate (not only talking about sex). So I think that "talk" is about due for you both, that way you guys will know if you are on the same page or not.

[Petit Papillon]

I'd dump her. A relationship without the physical side of things is the same as friends without benefits

Oh go to masturbate. Cheesus, not everything is about sex. If he enjoys her the way she is then let it be. You should masturbate at least 5 times a day so you would stop to write about sex allover this damn forum.

[Petit Papillon]

Yes Panda, you should talk about it to her. If she refuses to talk then you should start to worry Maybe she's a virgin and it's hard for her to break through Could be, there ARE 26yo virgins out there If it's the case,then it's not a surprise that she's acting that way. And again, if she's acting that way, it wouldn't be a surprise that she's a virgin

[RockNRoll]

You've been a lucky guy with getting sex on 1st or 2nd dates before. You might be very charming, etc. But there are girls who need some certain things to happen before they can go further. Is it that unusual to not have sex on the 5th date?!

So I think you shouldn't worry that you didn't have sex yet, but you are right to expect some affection. Not sure what's going on between you two? Next time start with something light, from holding her hand to more cuddles, say how much you enjoyed kissing her last night, kiss her again. Move slowly, so you could notice what is comfortable and what seems too much for her. If she pulls of again, go ahead and tell her your thoughts. Letting her know that you want to date her exclusively and what you think about her might help.

[Gratedwasabi]

I'm prettttttty sure she's not a virgin. LOL!

Any ideas about a next date? I want to ask her out for Saturday night because she's off Sunday (hint hint) but I literally have no good ideas for a winter night date. It'll be after 6:30 and cold and probably raining, and she'll be tired. Thinking of doing SOMETHING outside, maybe walking around a cool neighborhood and checking out shops/going to a cinema if we see something interesting/dunno and then coming back to my apartment to show her how to make sushi (which she loves.)

And yes, all of my date plans directly involve food. I am not creative at date ideas!!

I mean, I could wait until Sunday when she's off but I know she won't sleep with me when she has to be at school at 7:00 the next day and yes, my goal for this date is sex or find out why she doesn't want to have sex. LOL.

[vashti]

take her dancing.

[Gratedwasabi]

take her dancing.

I'm a terrible, terrible dancer, Vashy. I get the feeling she is, too, she's not particularly.. err.. coordinated. Haha.

[Take2]

What city do you live in? Do you have a tight budget?

[Gratedwasabi]

What city do you live in? Do you have a tight budget?

Seattle. Cold and rainy. Very, very tight at the moment.

[Petit Papillon]

Can I call you Panda?

[Gratedwasabi]

Can I call you Panda?

What.....?

[Petit Papillon]

Noun 1. panda - large black-and-white herbivorous mammal of bamboo forests of China and Tibet; in some classifications considered a member of the bear family or of a separate family Ailuropodidae
Ailuropoda melanoleuca, coon bear, giant panda, panda bear
procyonid - plantigrade carnivorous mammals
Ailuropoda, genus Ailuropoda - only the giant panda: in some classifications considered a genus of the separate family Ailuropodidae

[Gratedwasabi]

Noun 1. panda - large black-and-white herbivorous mammal of bamboo forests of China and Tibet; in some classifications considered a member of the bear family or of a separate family Ailuropodidae
Ailuropoda melanoleuca, coon bear, giant panda, panda bear
procyonid - plantigrade carnivorous mammals
Ailuropoda, genus Ailuropoda - only the giant panda: in some classifications considered a genus of the separate family Ailuropodidae

.............are you saying I'm a large black-and-white herbivorous mammal that resides in the lush bamboo forests of Seattle?

[Petit Papillon]

Your avatar says so

[Gratedwasabi]

Your avatar says so

No no, that's a costume I use for stealing baby pandas. I can see the confusion, however. Note the advanced carrier device aka a big tuberware bin with holes in it for transporting my black market merchandise.