Woman I'm dating texted me to come meet her for sushi between her class and yoga, so I did. It was nice. However, I'm starting to get really curious what her deal is with sex. I think there's something odd going on in that department. She's a bit weird about flirty jokes and such and went for just a hug after I walked her to her car (although I expected to kiss her, paused, and we ended up kissing a bit.. which she seemed into but she had to go or she'd miss her class.. ie I kissed her once and then pulled her against me and kissed her and when I thought she was trying to get me to stop she was just tilting her head the other way and kissed me. Then before she left she gave me another kiss.)
Then, on the advice of hormones, I decided to text her that she could always cap off her yoga with a martini and she shot me down. I quickly backtracked and apologized and told her that I really appreciated her making time for me for sushi and I enjoyed seeing her. She also mentioned tonight that even just a couple sips of her martini last time got her a little buzzed and now I'm wondering if the chemistry we had last time while kissing was just alcohol for her.
From the standpoint of someone who's almost always gotten sex on the first or second date, I'm confused. It SEEMS like she's attracted to me and there's chemistry. But no progression. Even if not sex, our most intimate moment was like a minute or two of pretty tame kissing.
What do you all make of this? We've already talked a lot and know each other well, so it's not like we're still trying to gleam each other's personalities. I don't understand why we wouldn't be more intimate.
So confused..