hence the dilemma.... like i said i dont think shes hung up on him, but she loves his kid and the fact that she went from being engaged to not in the matter of a few weeks... she was gonna marry this guy and im sure she dreamed of a future that will never happen... shes in a bad place and is im sure confused and vulnerable.. and like she said needs space..
I think this situation is a unique one, hence the issues with dealing with it.
If she said I dont have feelings for you or I just like you as a friend, I would be able to just let it go.. But the fact that she does have feelings for me but cant handle all the crap shes had to go through is what makes this sooooooo hard.