LMAO!! Thanks HIA. I have told her that I can't help her. I have told her she needs professional help and I think that is why I am starting to get blunt to the point of almost mean when she asks me what I think of how she should handle things.
Over the course of the day, I've managed to start looking forward to the family adventure rather than the second wedding night. I know our little boy will get a real kick out of having a swim in the spa and sleeping in the king size bed with us. I also just decided that before the year is out hubby and I are going to be due for a weekend away on our own and I'll get her to baby sit then. Concert season is approaching and we're expecting a nice tax return soon, maybe we can get something better out of this... hmmmm this might actually work to my advantage.
Oh and there is another reason I can't ever really write her off. She is one of 3 people our son is comfortable spending the night with, and she did babysit on our wedding night. *sigh*
Oh and yes, she is a mess, but so am I. Birds of a feather and all that. :p
'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.