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Thread: Why do people think its ok to hurt and pretend it never happened?

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    You'll have someone to hold again... just don't settle for Mrs. Right Now while waiting for Mrs. Right.

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    Its a lonely road when you go it alone.

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    I know man - I'm travelling that same road - but somewhere, sometime, there starts a little spark of 'survival' - whether you do it for yourself, or for somekind of 'revenge' ("I'll show her what she's missing!") you pull yourself up off the ground and you start rebuilding - yes, in your mind, she's still 'the one' - yes, in your mind, she's deliriously happy in her new status - neither statement need be true - I know it's miserable and painful and traumatic right now - I'm going through the same emotional torment, believe me - but when it comes down to it, you're still you - and you need to find that original version of 'you' - it's a lonely road, yes, but find to strength to look forward to what could be waiting at the next crossroads.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Toddstar View Post
    Its a lonely road when you go it alone.
    Yeah well, I mean it - don't settle. I did. Unfortunately I met Mrs. Right after settling... she'd settled too. We spent 20 years not being able to have one another.

    But I got lucky - I'm married to her now.

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