Why Do I Like Young Girls?

[IndiReloaded]

If there's grass on the field, play ball!

LOL. Seriously tho, women used to get married and have children not much older than 14. Plus these days, girls seem to be developing much earlier. High protein, hormone diets.

I'll repeat one of my favourite quotes:

One isn't responsible for thoughts, only acts of will.

So, think that teenybopper in the shorts and tank is hot? Fine, I doubt you are alone. But keep it to yourself and don't act on it unless you want to end up in jail or on the receiving end of a father's baseball bat or shotgun. Go find a 20 something that looks 14. Try asian.

[searock]

I did offer a possible reason - did you have any sexual experience with adults when you were younger? That's often the case with men who are into teenagers.

Btw, what you did with the 15 years old was wrong. She may have been begging for you to do it, but the truth of the matter is, she was too young to know what was good for her own sake. You should have been the adult of the situation and known that it wasn't the right thing to do. I was that girl once, so I know. To be fair, 22 isn't actually too disgustingly old to be dating a 15 years old, I'm 22 myself and I know that many people this age still have the mindset of a teenager (immature, still live with their parents, etc). It still doesn't make it right, I'm just saying that it could have been much worse.

[fallbackintome]

The reason why you like younger girls is just because you do.. everyone's different. Yeah I think 14-17 may be young for you since they're not even adults yet while you are.. but they're nothing wrong with looking and not touching.
I'm somewhat on the opposite end of where you are.. I'm 18 and have always liked older guys. Not like dad aged because that's weird. But I just find guys 9 years older than me and younger so damn attractive. (when the age difference reaches 10 years is where I draw the line) So the typical young girl who likes the more strong looking and (hopefully) more mature man, yes.

[KingZ]

So, think that teenybopper in the shorts and tank is hot? Fine, I doubt you are alone. But keep it to yourself and don't act on it unless you want to end up in jail or on the receiving end of a father's baseball bat or shotgun. Go find a 20 something that looks 14. Try asian.

What if a chick lies to me and tells me that she's 13, but I later find out she's 20? Am I still a pedobear?

Oh, the horror!

[Wakeup]

I don't need yall to come in here tellin me I how much of a pervert i am or how much I need help.
Cuz i realize this.

Then why don't you get some therapy. If you're so obsessed and you hate yourself so much for what you want and you realize "this" then why not talk to a professional about your fetish that you want answers to so much, and that makes you self-loathe. Obviously your "scientific research" about men wanting the most fertile of the gender isn't placating much by the way you're shouting and knowing you need help.

I don't understand why you like the look of little girls who are to young to be doing the things you'd like to do to them but Searock touched on perhaps one of the reasons why ~ Were you sexually abused as a young boy?
I Too had another maybe reason.. that young girls make for good visual stimulation fodder men are visual so, it turns you on?

If you're not acting on it then as Indi says keep it to yourself, enjoy the view, just don't act on it. Use it for private times. Word of caution.. Don't go on teen porn sights. I don't know where you're from but here in Canada, you could be monitored by special police task forces who are looking for predators that are interested in the kind of girls you're interested in.

Why don't you start weaning yourself off the babes and re-introduce yourself to the photos of 18+ year old naked women?

[Confizzled]

You guys are misunderstanding me. I mean, no, you're not, some of you are very understanding and I thank you.
But I should've rephrased the the title:
Instead of "Why do I like young girls"..
maybe I shouldve put "Why am I not adverse to finding younger teens hot as much as an older girl." You know what I'm saying?
Like...
A sixteen year old and a twenty six year old can be just as hot to me. I'm not looking for "younger looking girls"
Im asking like...since its wrong...why am I thinking the sixteen year old is hot too?


Earlier post I did in all caps was a drunk rant haha and I'm sorry
I'm sure we've all had those

[Confizzled]

I wasn't sexually abused as a child. I was beaten and my life revolved around chores and whether or not my chores would be done to my dad's insane standards or be beaten with a board but no.

I always have been attracted to girls tho like
Since I was little in kindegarten I used to have crushes on the other girls..while the other little boys were like "eww girls" I was like damn I dont know what I want to do to her but I like her...I knew what liking a girl was


And: I would go ask a therapist if #1 I had money to do it
and #2 ...if I was stupid

"hey mrs. ph.d I have a problem, I think young teen girls are just as hot as hot 26 year old girls whats wrong with me"
Mrs.Ph.d- "Hold on mr. Confizzled I'll be right back." *phones police.


Like I said: Ew...what the f*ck...at little young girls before 14...
Who look like little boys...that----sick..whoever likes those type of girls before puberty & breasts and hips and womanlyness....something's wrong with them
That to me is real pedddooooo shizz
But

Idk.
Ugh. Like the guy who said it above me described it perfectly: I'm not responsible for what is happening in my brain.

The girl above me said "I've always been attracted to older mature men as many as 10 years older than me"
....Why couldn't my "problem" work in exact reciprical? It's just how it is?

"LOL. Seriously tho, women used to get married and have children not much older than 14. Plus these days, girls seem to be developing much earlier. High protein, hormone diets.

I'll repeat one of my favourite quotes:

One isn't responsible for thoughts, only acts of will.

this.

[Wakeup]

I wasn't sexually abused as a child. I was beaten and my life revolved around chores and whether or not my chores would be done to my dad's insane standards or be beaten with a board but no.

I always have been attracted to girls tho like
Since I was little in kindegarten I used to have crushes on the other girls..while the other little boys were like "eww girls" I was like damn I dont know what I want to do to her but I like her...I knew what liking a girl was


And: I would go ask a therapist if #1 I had money to do it
and #2 ...if I was stupid

"hey mrs. ph.d I have a problem, I think young teen girls are just as hot as hot 26 year old girls whats wrong with me"
Mrs.Ph.d- "Hold on mr. Confizzled I'll be right back." *phones police.


Like I said: Ew...what the f*ck...at little young girls before 14...
Who look like little boys...that----sick..whoever likes those type of girls before puberty & breasts and hips and womanlyness....something's wrong with them
That to me is real pedddooooo shizz
But

Idk.
Ugh. Like the guy who said it above me described it perfectly: I'm not responsible for what is happening in my brain.

The girl above me said "I've always been attracted to older mature men as many as 10 years older than me"
....Why couldn't my "problem" work in exact reciprical? It's just how it is?






this.

First off.. girls used to get married at 14 at one time because they were dead by the time they were in their 30's for goodness sakes and their husbands were'nt much older so don't use that ole chesnut as an excuse for everything you've been saying is just cool and dandy. Jerry Lee Lews married his 13 year old cousin, that still doesn't make it right. It just shows you that you're not the only one in the world who is like you.
If you were referring to the last line, when you said "this" well then, forget what I said above.
The girl above you isn't 13 so don't even go there. It's not the "older" that's the problem, it's the fact that you're an adult and you want a child sexually that's the problem.

No therapist would call the police on you either. They are sworn to never disclose what they discuss with their patients so quit making excuse for yourself. Check your health plan, half the time people are covered for at least 10 therapy sessions and they don't even know it.

In the meantime do everyone (young girls and yourself) a favor and practice getting by on women your own age until you can do it perfectly

[Confizzled]

Did you just choose to ignore the post above what you just quoted?
I said
It's not that I "just want to get with young little teen girls ooo thats all I want yum n I'll never be attracted to an old ass senior citizen of 26 oo thats so old and gross looking to me"


I said...if the 16 year old is HOT...i happen to find them JUST AS ATTRACTIVE as a HOT TWENTY THIRTY WHATEVER YEAR OLD.

Get me?

[Confizzled]

Thats all I hook up with is girls my age. I'm just saying...in my drunk rant (drunk while I posted this thread originally too Lol) maybe it sounded like "OMG WHY DO I LIKE YOUNG GIRLS" like that's all I like...what i meant was WHY AM I NOT ADVERSE TO THINKING YOUNG GIRLS ARE AS HOT...WHEN THEY'RE HOT...as a hot older girl. Idk why you try to break me down like you're so intelligent but clearly not getting this.

[searock]

I think it's a psychological thing. I also think you should get therapy if you want to get to the root of the problem (it is a problem for you, otherwise you wouldn't be asking "what's wrong with me").

[Lipp]

How about finding out about prominent researchers and then read their books/attend lectures/get in touch with 'em? You're not going to get any straight answers on here since we're more about providing advice on a course of action or considering social acceptance/morality, which is not what you're looking for.

So yeah, apart from that there's no real reason to get strung up about it as long as you don't act on it. Kinda like having a hot cousin or something

[qwertz]

This thread is funny.

Right now I have a desire for alcohol and chocolate... I can't act on it but I don't start questioning why I want it, I just do.

Why is grass green/sky blue yaddayaddayadda.

[IndiReloaded]

First off.. girls used to get married at 14 at one time because they were dead by the time they were in their 30's for goodness sakes and their husbands were'nt much older so don't use that ole chesnut as an excuse for everything you've been saying is just cool and dandy.

No Wakeup, that's not why. Its b/c they were biologically ready to have children (and considered property). No humans made a conscious decision and said 'gee, if we marry them at 14 then we'll get ~15 years out of them'. Besides, Roman women were living easily twice that and marriage at around 15 wasn't uncommon. Caesar's daughter married at that age.

OP - are you attracted to young but 'mature' teenagers (i.e. physically developed), or are you into flat-chested girls who look more like children than women. If you are into the child look, then yes you might want to get some help. Pedophiles have a short life-span in prison, btw.

[HeartIsAching]

No therapist would call the police on you either. They are sworn to never disclose what they discuss with their patients so quit making excuse for yourself.

Not strictly true. If you tell a therapist that you've committed a crime, they're legally obligated to report it. If you tell them that you've got those thoughts, they have a legal obligation to keep it confidential. Important distinction.