He wants to get a hotel room and privacy but it's not all about sex? yeah, right. He's too tired to talk serious but is full of energy when sex is being discussed. haha
Tell him that you will not be going to a hotel because you want to delay getting physical until you've got a relationship established in real life. See if he's still bothers talking to you after that.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.