It's been 5 years

[Only-virgins]

frasbee, you seem kinda bitter.

Nah, hes just being correct. Think of it this way. You all-ready know the answer for you situation because if you dont then it means there isnt one since the only way to get over someone is to WANT to get over someone. Happens naturally.

[RSK]

I thought it's been 7 years:

It's been seven years and fifteen days
Since u took your love away
I go out every night and sleep all day
Since u took your love away
Since u been gone I can do whatever I want
I can see whomever I choose
I can eat my dinner in a fancy restaurant
But nothing
I said nothing can take away these blues
`Cause nothing compares
Nothing compares 2 u
It's been so lonely without u here
Like a bird without a song
Nothing can stop these lonely tears from falling
Tell me baby where did I go wrong
I could put my arms around every boy I see
But they'd only remind me of you
I went to the doctor n'guess what he told me
Guess what he told me
He said girl u better have fun
No matter what u do
But he's a fool
`Cause nothing compares
Nothing compares 2 u
All the flowers that u planted, mama
In the back yard
All died when u went away
I know that living with u baby was sometimes hard
But I'm willing to give it another try
Nothing compares
Nothing compares 2 u
Nothing compares
Nothing compares 2 u
Nothing compares
Nothing compares 2 u

[TAVS]

Yea, we're just kinda blunt here. I agree with everything that needs said. You need to be honest with your husband and ask him to respect you for that. You also need professional help it seems. Oh yea, and like they said, STOP TALKING TO THE OLD DUDE.

[whaywardj]

i'm looking for someone to tell me how to break the strings to let my heart be at peace. i love my husband eternally. i don't want to love my ex.

How about asking yourself what's lacking in your marriage that prompts you to return your attention to that past milestone?

[misombra]

i think this is a classic case of the grass being greener over there.

[Tone]

But 'sombra the grass really IS greener here in NE than in NM! *hint hint*

[whaywardj]

Yeah, but that in NM gives you a better buzz.

[artyemi]

what's this thread about? green grass in nm? or ne?

sometimes, people like brown grass.

[PIZZ]

Hey, you love him. Cant help how you feel... I'd say go and tell your ex how you feel. If he feels the same way then theres your answer as to what you should do. You'll do yourself and your husband a favor.

[Borealis]

You only have one life to live. To live that life with regret is sin. We cannot dictate the rights and wrongs, since ultimately it is yours to say what is and what isn't. We live our life the best way we know it, and from our perception of things, we believe that to stay with your current husband, ammend those past issues, and move on is the best thing to do. But, maybe we are wrong because we only know what is on the surface, of which is what you tell us. I only hope you don't regret the choice you make 10 years from now, because that's when it will really count.