Would you rather have sex or love?

[anya_may21]

Michelle23
What Exeter19 explained. Yes, no love only sex, and lust, free from a relationship situation or commitments.

I know people who want nothing but sex and sex alone and others like myself who want love and a relationship first and sex comes with that but isn't all about that.

So Love is first.

[nomas]

"Love", as defined by Disney, Hollywood, Bollywood, your mom, religion, etc.is the be-all , ultimate, unbeatable feeling/idea that the life of every man, woman, and child should strive for.

That said, and though I don't preach this as a philosophy for EVERYONE, I prefer to live by the "I don't wanna be loved, I just want a quickie" as sung by Miguel.

Never say never, but at this point in my life, I like living drama free, even if it means sacrificing the good things that come with involving yourself sentimentally. I like to live JUST FOR ME, if you will, but I sure as he'll am not giving up sex, so my answers, right now, is sex over love.

[anya_may21]

Thank you for answering, nomas.

I like the idea of Disney Romantic love, it never even comes close but still would wish for a fairy-tale like love story.

Do you tell all your partners you only want sex, not a relationship so they know going into it they shouldn't expect more of you?

[nomas]

That's my policy. If we've delved into a conversation long enough to mention it.I say it like it is, my friendship will always be there for anyone who wants it, but not my emotions in the romantic sense. the sex is also always on that table under this understanding.

Now, of course, if it goes without saying as in a one night stand, I won't go out of my way to have her sign the release form.

[MARIIIAAA]

I am ready for love. I am getting to a moment in my life when I want something meaningfull with someone, but all that they proppose to me is sex, maybe I am too old fashioned to accept that, and it makes me so sad

[adityasingh]

According to me, love and sex both are important in our life. But I prefer only love.

[CougarHottie]

My boyfriend recently said something to me that I found fairly profound: "A man needs to have sex with a woman first to see if she is good enough in bed to establish a relationship, because a relationship without good sex really sucks."

[nomas]

I agree that a good relationship with bad sex sucks, but that is not strictly a guy thing. It's probably more relevant to girls. A guy is very simple and can reach an orgasm any time by masturbating, most women are not so simple. More important for the woman to make sure she has a man who can please her.

[FBJ]

I rather take fetishes over both

[Love_addiction]

Hi

I am sharing my views by this forum that if we love some one from heart then definitely we love the body of our partner that is soul relationship so love and sex have deep connection.

[anya_may21]

FBJ
What kinds of fetishes?

Love_addiction
Yes if you are attracted to another you want to be sexual with them, but wanting to be sexual with someone doesn't always mean you love them, but you desire them, imo.

[YoungCosmo]

If being bad at sex is such a huge problem in relationships, I guess I'm ****ed (no pun intended)! I don't even know how to have sex.

[FBJ]

FBJ
What kinds of fetishes?

Love_addiction
Yes if you are attracted to another you want to be sexual with them, but wanting to be sexual with someone doesn't always mean you love them, but you desire them, imo.

I like when a woman takes off her shoes and walks on top of me

[anya_may21]

If being bad at sex is such a huge problem in relationships, I guess I'm ****ed (no pun intended)! I don't even know how to have sex.

LOL at your pun.

What does bad at sex mean to you, something you think you are or something someone has told you you are?

Sex can be fast and still good, if you are in the moment and enjoy yourself.

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I like when a woman takes off her shoes and walks on top of me

That isn't too bad of a fetish.

They do that don't they for massage?

[FBJ]

LOL at your pun.

What does bad at sex mean to you, something you think you are or something someone has told you you are?

Sex can be fast and still good, if you are in the moment and enjoy yourself.

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That isn't too bad of a fetish.

They do that don't they for massage?

Yeah they do but I am doing it because I am playing the role of a human floor lol