You think a two hour trip is perfectly reasonable? O.o Lets see how "perfectly reasonable you feel it is when you actually have to start doing it.
Do you drive or will you be hitch-hiking/training/bussing?
Do you have a steady job?
You think a two hour trip is perfectly reasonable? O.o Lets see how "perfectly reasonable you feel it is when you actually have to start doing it.
Do you drive or will you be hitch-hiking/training/bussing?
Do you have a steady job?
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
Because its going to cost you money to get to her, then money spend on her and then money getting back home.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
Not sure how close she is to where you work. If your work happens to be along the same train route, you could always get a monthly pass for the train. They are a bit pricey, but if you can use the train for work AND to see her, it could be worth your while if you can afford it. There are other options too, if you are going to be making regular trips. It is a good point, though. A two hour trip isn't just a hop, skip, and a jump.... especially when you consider how much it would cost you. (Either in gas, or train tickets.) Still, it could be a lot worse than two hours as well. At least two hours isn't completely excessive. May be a lot, though, if you have to keep traveling there and back, especially considering you need to sleep and get to work.