Originally Posted by
Sirana
I will tell you what my best friend told me!
"Men are pigs! Once they sleep with a woman, they think she is theirs for the rest of the life and they have every rights to own her and not share her! This doesn't mean he likes you, wake up. He wants you as an option when he feels he wants to hang out with you. He might like you. Men are men. Untill he doesn't tell you straight in your eyes I want to be with you, only with you, nothing counts!"
She told me those words, anyway. If a dude is saying those wonderful things, then he gets annoyed when you mention a relationship and ask him what does he really wants and he gives you mixed signals. I think it simply means that he is that kind of guy who can't stand the fact my friend told me above. Yes, maybe guys need some time to figure things out and think about it. So they act one way, then another and they are sensless.
Look, he probably knows you are doing it with someone else, if you didn't tell him. I don't want to be rude now, but a guy cannot value woman who was honest and said I have sex with multiple men besides you. He is probably confused and his value of yourself in his eyes is pushing him away.
Do you want to be with him or not?