My fiancee uses her vibrator + rabbit tip when we are apart for a few days. She fantasizes about me, and she orgasms uncontrollably. When we are together, we often use the vibrator after we both cum a few times. The vibrator is, coincidentally, the same size and shape as me when I am hard. She uses the vibrator inside and around her, while I kiss her and caress her everywhere. We both enjoy it tremendously, and she is super happy that I am not insecure about the toy. Why would I be? It's an instrument to enhance our love-making. After she has her massive orgasm with the vibrator, we have intercourse again and she cums even harder. It's really wonderful.