ya I pretty much chalked the gym thing up to whatever I figured with our fight last week she hid something from me cause she thought i would get pissed. The pizza thing has happened before but she told me and I didn't get upset at all. As far as calling her on stuff even though I can look at our phone bill etc... its still gonna piss her off cause I snooped and I'm not proud of it believe me so I found out unfairly then its not fair for me to hold it against her